Make your parenting plan for free with BeNice

When you separate, a lot comes at you at once.
While you’re still in the middle of the emotions, big decisions suddenly have to be made.
Where will you live? How do you take good care of the children? And how do you sort out the money?

As if that weren’t enough, you also have to draw up a parenting plan.
For many parents, that feels overwhelming.

That’s where BeNice helps you.

In our app, you put together a parenting plan step by step by answering questions in a dedicated chat. No forms or complicated language, just a conversation, as easy as texting.

You do it wherever and whenever suits you. At home on the sofa, at your own pace.
Need a break? You pause and pick it up again later.
Not sure what a question means? You ask about it right there in the app and get an explanation and examples.

Step by step, that gives you a clear draft parenting plan.

A good basis for talking things through together, for example with a mediator.

That brings more calm and clarity, and leaves more room for what really matters: the children.

You can try every feature free for 7 days, plus 7 more for both of you as soon as the other parent joins. That includes making the draft parenting plan (and saving it as a PDF).

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The list of questions for your parenting plan in the BeNice app

Why other parents choose BeNice

You open a message from the other parent and feel the tension before you’ve read a word. The reproaches, the sharp remarks and the frustration pile up. There’s a constant pressure. You want to do right by yourself and by your children, but every message feels like a new fight.

Maybe you also know the feeling of looking for something you agreed on and wondering where it was again. In a text, an e-mail, at the front door or in the parenting plan? It costs time and energy, and often leaves you confused anyway.

A father reads a book to his daughter in a play tent

BeNice brings back the calm

BeNice helps you respond calmly and clearly. Without judgement, reproach or emotional outbursts, and always with a clear message.

When something negative comes your way from the other parent, BeNice filters the message back to what matters. No insults, no reproaches and no needlessly long stories, so you can find your calm again.

A filter against negativity

No more endless stream of messages, and no more feeling that the other parent sets the mood of your day. BeNice filters insults, reproaches and noise out of the conversation, so only what matters is left. You decide when you read messages and when you reply.

Everything in one place

No more conversations scattered across WhatsApp, e-mail and text messages, and no more digging for “what” was agreed “where”. With BeNice, everything you discuss about the children is together in one clear place. That prevents misunderstandings, keeps you in control and saves you time and energy.

Stay kind yourself

While you chat in BeNice, the Feedback Coach helps you keep your own messages kind and clear. It gives you feedback and tips the moment your message comes out sharper or more emotional than you meant. Those tips are easy to apply.

You’re not alone

Why other parents choose BeNice

  • "Really lovely app, definitely recommended!"

    Minouschka, via Google Play (translated from Dutch)

  • "I can open my messages again without a knot in my stomach."

    Marieke, mother of 2

  • "I really like the calendar and the way you request a swap."

    From a user’s email

Feel the difference yourself

Start today and feel the positive change in shared parenting when the tension leaves your conversations and you have the full picture again.
Try BeNice free for 7 days. You both get 7 extra days free as soon as the other parent joins your family circle. No commitment, feel the calm.

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