The communication app for separated parents

Calm, clarity and respect.
Even when it’s hard.

Parenting after a separation can feel like a puzzle whose pieces just won’t fit. Conversations get stuck, agreements get lost and the tension builds. BeNice helps you make the pieces fit again, so you and your children get calm and clarity back.

For yourself, because you need room to breathe and energy to spare. And for your children, because they’re better off with parents who treat each other with calm and respect.

For just €9.99 per family.

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BeNice’s friendly message filter

Why other parents choose BeNice

You open a message from the other parent and feel the tension before you’ve read a word. The reproaches, the sharp remarks and the frustration pile up. There’s a constant pressure. You want to do right by yourself and by your children, but every message feels like a new fight.

Maybe you also know the feeling of looking for something you agreed on and wondering where it was again. In a text, an e-mail, at the front door or in the parenting plan? It costs time and energy, and often leaves you confused anyway.

A father reads a book to his daughter in a play tent

BeNice brings back the calm

BeNice helps you respond calmly and clearly. Without judgement, reproach or emotional outbursts, and always with a clear message.

When something negative comes your way from the other parent, BeNice filters the message back to what matters. No insults, no reproaches and no needlessly long stories, so you can find your calm again.

A filter against negativity

No more endless stream of messages, and no more feeling that the other parent sets the mood of your day. BeNice filters insults, reproaches and noise out of the conversation, so only what matters is left. You decide when you read messages and when you reply.

Everything in one place

No more conversations scattered across WhatsApp, e-mail and text messages, and no more digging for “what” was agreed “where”. With BeNice, everything you discuss about the children is together in one clear place. That prevents misunderstandings, keeps you in control and saves you time and energy.

Stay kind yourself

While you chat in BeNice, the Feedback Coach helps you keep your own messages kind and clear. It gives you feedback and tips the moment your message comes out sharper or more emotional than you meant. Those tips are easy to apply.

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For parents who want calm, not conflict

BeNice is for you if:

  • you need calm, clarity and structure
  • you want to protect yourself from needless insults and negativity
  • you’re no longer together, but know that you’re still parents together

BeNice is not for you if:

  • you mainly want to collect evidence for legal proceedings
  • you want to check up on or correct the other parent
  • you’re looking for a place to fight it out

You’re not alone

Why other parents choose BeNice

  • "Really lovely app, definitely recommended!"

    Minouschka, via Google Play (translated from Dutch)

  • "I can open my messages again without a knot in my stomach."

    Marieke, mother of 2

  • "I really like the calendar and the way you request a swap."

    From a user’s email

Feel the difference yourself

Start today and feel the positive change in shared parenting when the tension leaves your conversations and you have the full picture again.
Try BeNice free for 7 days. You both get 7 extra days free as soon as the other parent joins your family circle. No commitment, feel the calm.

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